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pro tip: before getting serious w a man, just casually mention ur period. like, just say ‘my cramps are bad rn’ or ‘I have to go buy some pads’. his reaction is very telling of how mature and understanding he is. you don’t wanna be dating a grown ass man who gets grossed out by the word menstruation. u deserve someone who is comfortable w u and I do mean all of u. you’ll be thanking urself for doing it now and not later hun!
THIS IS REALLY INDICATIVE OF HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT A LOT OF THINGS. TRUST ME.
True story. Once, I dated a guy once that wouldn’t let me pay for my own pads him he has with me. He wouldn’t go out and buy them himself if I needed them though. I had to stand next to him, which defeated the whole reason for him going to buy me any. Was uncomfortable with period talk and letting me pay for things myself.
Once, I also dated a guy that wouldn’t even stand in the pads alley with him. It grossed him out. Everything about my period grossed him out and he didn’t want to touch me. Just left me alone and didn’t want to deal with any of it. Wouldn’t even stand next to me when I bought pads.
Now, the guy I’m with and going to marry, he is a whole different story. I was dying of cramps and got my period while finishing up a class. (My campus can get very bad to the point where I’m shaking in pain or unable to move) Mistakenly didn’t bring pads and texted I needed him to do me the biggest favor. Not only did he buy me pads (something he does from time to time when I need them) but he marched through campus with them not bothering to hide it and brought me Advil.
Last week, I was dying in pain and lost my hot pack when I went to visit my mother. I asked him to buy me a new one and he forgot. So, I’m in massive pain near tears and it’s past ten at night wishing I hadn’t been so stupid as to lose it. He gets dressed and goes out to get me a hot pack even when I tell him over and over that I can wait until morning and I don’t want him to go not because he needs to go to bed.
He flat out says “I love you. You asked me to get you a hot pack and I forgot. Now, you are in a lot of pain and I can’t stand to see that. So, I’m getting you the hot pack and I’ll be back soon.” Comes back with the hot pack, ice cream and a candy bar.
Not saying all men need to be this level of nice. But I am saying that bring up your period in a casual manner is a great way to see how people will treat you when you are sick, not feeling well, or just basically how they handled things.
ACTUALLY THEY DO NEED TO BE THAT LEVEL OF NICE THOUGH
You are absolutely correct, and I was a fool not to realize it sooner.
My boyfriend makes me tea, warms up my heat pack, tucks my blankets around me and if I’m in bed turns on my heat blanket and curls up behind me and rubs my tummy. He also buys me pads if I need them. Explaining the type I need was funny.
I also once got my period at a party and we were all around the bed with our feet in the middle. I went to the bathroom and realised I’d started. The host (17yr old male) helped me clean the blood off the bed sheet I’d bled onto and got me a pad from his mums room. The other guy guests just shrugged and said “it happens” and gave me cuddles and checked I was okay throughout the night.
This is how I knew I’d found good friends.
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Every Day Trailer || The Vampire Diaries Style x
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“One dollar to save a child”
Where is this from
Key and Peele on Comedy Central 😭
[
PEEL: Excuse me sir, do you have a moment to save the children?
KEY: I’m - I’m sorry man, I’m running late and I just don’t have time to chat right now so-
PEEL: I understand, I understand that. It’s just that every minute another child dies unnecessarily, a child that could live a fruitful life with the help of just one small donation.
KEY: Yeah I, I don’t have the time. I’m sorry.
PEEL: I understand that, I understand that. It’s just all it takes is just one dollar to save a child.
KEY: *sighs, puts down bags* Alright. You know what? Uh, you’re right. Uh-huh, yep. Who doesn’t want to help a child? *pulls out a bill* Let’s save five children.
PEEL: {shouted into the distance suddenly in a gruffer, less-customer-service-y type voice} TOMMY!
tire skidding noises, engine as white van draws nearer. when it stops, dramatic music plays
PEEL, to the children in the van: Alright, c’mon, c’mon.
sound effects of children’s voices clamoring to get out
PEEL, counting children: One, two, three, four, five… not so fast, just five.
PEEL, to KEY, in customer service voice: Thanks a lot sir!
KEY is speechless for a moment processing wtf he just saw. Silently mouths a ‘wh-’ to himself
KEY: Oh my god I have another dollar. I have another dollar - {calling out} Sir! I have another dolla-
video ends ]
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“Where your accent from?”
“Australia”
“AAAGHHH”IF THIS AIN’T ME
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“what are you reading?”
“its a…online book.”
“oh cool, what’s it about?”
“….uh….”

I love that everyone just knows
Or…alternately:
“what are you writing?”
“it’s a….story.”
“oh cool, what’s it about?”
“…uh…”
“can i read it?”
“Oooh what are you drawing? Can I see?”
I FEEL THIS on a personal level
My reaction to “Can I see your drawing?”
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for @sheafrotherdon who registered to vote :D
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this is the most beautiful thing i have ever heard
Sorry all I can think about is how pissed off everyone else in this dorm must be
what is this song i should know this i feel like a dumbass
“Binary Sunset” from Star Wars.
And man, is this gorgeous.
this is my favorite piece of soundtrack orchestration, hands down, in any movie, ever.
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Yesterday morning, I meet this man named Daniel on the A train selling his Naruto figurines to raise money to feed his son. It turns out that his sons first birthday is coming up and he would love to keep these figurines to give to him when he’s older as a gift! If you could donate to his GoFundMe it’d be amazing
https://www.gofundme.com/little-daniel039s-1st-bday-032218


UPDATE
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get you a man who can do both
one of my patients came in for an emergency visit, because she snapped the wire on her retainer watching the movie when MBJ took his shirt off she clenched her teeth so fucking hard she snapped it. that is the fucking funniest shit ever to me this tiny 17 year old girl thirsting so goddamn hard she busted steel
Y'all, it gets better. She found out.




update:

LOL
This is the best!
OH SHIT IT’S THE POST


